I know it does and that we all express it differently. If you’ve hung around this long, you’ve passed any imaginable test of fandom. You’re in this for the long haul and someday it will have been worth it.
Earlier this season Dave at Nats News Network wrote a nice post about surviving another tough year. Steven at FJB had a similiar one. Read those. If wins and losses make or break your day, it’s going to be a painful couple of months. I refuse to go through that again. I was cranky, depressed, cynical, mean — last summer was a challenge. But I learned a lot.
Keep your expectations low. Look for small victories. Enjoy the offense. Meet new baseball friends. Enjoy a night at the ballpark. Teach someone about baseball. Come watch the young kids learn how to pitch. Learn to laugh at yourself (and your team). Complain (hey, we all need to complain sometimes, right).
Don’t expect to win, think of that as a bonus. Don’t expect any magic solutions. There’s not a lot of relief pitching out there to be had and Strasburg will stay in the minors, apparently.
Decide what the Nationals are worth to you — in terms of your leisure time and hard earned money, and stick within that parameter. Don’t overdo it… not yet. There will be a time and a place for 24/7 commitment, but now is probably not that time and if you’re investing that kind of energy, you’ll probably get burned. I did. You can still be a fan and scale back a little.
If you are giving 100%, go you. I can respect that. I love that. Just watch your heart. The Nats are prone to breaking it.
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May 21st, 2009 at 2:39 pm
“Baseball breaks your heart. It is designed to break your heart.” A. Bartlett Giamatti, ex-commisioner, in The Green Fields of the Mind
May 21st, 2009 at 3:30 pm
Heart been broken several times over. Stomped on.
Yet I keep getting in the car and going back.
I’ll stick with it until I’m dead.
Which may be soon at this rate.
May 21st, 2009 at 6:37 pm
As a long-time Caps fan, I’ve had lots of practice. This will soon be a memory.
A really painful one, but a memory nevertheless.
May 21st, 2009 at 8:08 pm
After 45 years of being stomped on, this is nothing. Try losing your team completely for 33 years.
May 28th, 2009 at 11:36 am
Watching the young rotation mature and try to figure things out this summer will be fun. They might be able to feed off even a little bit of success.
They can only go up from here.